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Not long ago I attended a concert. It was a band that I had been waiting a while to see and so I was excited to be there in the crowd. Part way through, they played my favourite song and I noticed that I felt something different.<\/p>\n

It felt like a pinnacle moment where the emotion of joy felt expansive and unstoppable. In that moment, I felt more alive with all my senses of my surroundings heightened and yet so much more connected to the core of who I know myself to be.<\/p>\n

I first set out to write about finding joy, as if joy was out there in the world waiting for us to find it. However, the story of the concert shows us that this is not the case.<\/p>\n

Not everyone likes the band that I saw and not everyone in the concert had the same experience as me. This tells us that joy is more personal, an inside job, rather than something to find outside ourselves.<\/p>\n

The psychologist\u00a0Chris Meadows<\/a>\u00a0suggests that joy is a feeling that comes from viewing an event in our lives as being meaningful to us or good for us.<\/p>\n

Joy is not just a singular experience, there are different types of joy, according to Meadows. In his study of joy he writes about the muted experience of \u201cserene joy\u201d, which aims at restoring or maintaining equilibrium in the body. Then there is \u201cexcited joy\u201d, which is linked to pursuing goals.<\/p>\n

\u201cIndividuated joy\u201d is felt while alone while \u201caffiliative joy\u201d is shared with others. Meadow\u2019s study into the phenomenon of joy suggests that social experiences of joy occur more often than solo ones and result in what we know as bonding experiences.<\/p>\n

\u201cAnticipatory joy\u201d<\/a>\u00a0occurs when the fulfilment of a goal is imminent and then \u201cconsummatory joy\u201d happens when the goal has been achieved. There is also an element of feeling blessed or that what has been achieved has exceeded expectations.<\/p>\n

In addition to the thought processes that lead to joy, there are many other elements that need to be in place. Safe, familiar surroundings are key in enabling us to be present in the moment to support relaxed equilibrium. When we feel\u00a0safe and relaxed<\/a>, we are more able to laugh and play and explore new ideas.<\/p>\n

Playfulness that\u2019s aimless but results in fairly predictable outcomes, allows us to switch off our inner critic and focus on the good feelings of being in the moment with joy. This brings a sense of ease in that whatever happens, requires very little effort on our part.<\/p>\n

Here are five tips on how to find what brings you joy in its many forms:<\/p>\n

1. Be present<\/h4>\n

\u201cBe in the moment\u201d is easy to say but harder to do.<\/p>\n

Joy exists in the present, therefore, we need to be there to experience it. This might mean that sometimes we need to ditch the phone and not video something to post or watch later as doing that prevents us becoming immersed in the here and now. This is about making our own experience more important than the \u201clikes\u201d of others.<\/p>\n

2. Listen to your inner voice<\/strong><\/h4>\n

Next, turn up the volume on your inner voice.<\/p>\n

As joy is unique to each of us, we need to hear our own voice to find out what will bring us joy. To do this, it helps to create specificity around the goals that we aspire to in the future so that we are clear about what we want to achieve.<\/p>\n

I love the theme tune for\u00a0The Pirates of the Caribbean<\/a>\u00a0and want to be able to play it on the piano. To make this goal specific, I need to decide what my success criteria is. It might be, I want to play to the end without stopping, or I want to get to the end without stopping and to play all of the notes on the sheet music without mistakes. Only I can know whether I would feel more joyful by achieving the second goal over the first.<\/p>\n

Being specific means we will clearly know when that goal fulfilment is either imminent or achieved. So, the more specific we are the better. The same goes for looking at the experiences that have brought us joy in the past. By reflecting on these experiences, we can learn things about ourselves that lead to us being able to create more joy.<\/p>\n

3. Don\u2019t listen to your inner critic<\/strong><\/h4>\n

It helps to switch off your inner critic, or at least turn the volume on this down.<\/p>\n

It is not possible to be playful and feel safe and free, while we constantly are censoring ourselves. So, tell the inner critic that it is OK for you to be you.<\/p>\n

4. Find your tribe<\/strong><\/h4>\n

These are people who enjoy the same things as you. Being with other people who are like us enables us to feel freer to express ourselves in ways that are congruent with who we are.<\/p>\n

5. Tune into the little things<\/strong><\/h4>\n

Finally, pay attention to the little things, as they actually are the big things. Joy comes from the most unexpected places. By noticing when we feel joy we can create more of those experiences in our lives so that we can truly experience that\u00a0joie de vivre<\/em>\u00a0(the joy of living).<\/p>\n

Author Bio:<\/strong> Alison Bishop is Lecturer in Positive Psychology Coaching at the University of East London<\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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