Doing the dishes, laundry, ironing, cooking, feeding the baby are not solely the wife’s job, but also the responsibility of the husband. www.shutterstock.com September 6, 2018 The secret to a happy marriage: flexible roles Alimatul Qibtiyah, Universitas Islam Negeri Sunan Kalijaga and Siti Syamsiyatun, Indonesian Consortium for Religious Studies A survey in Yogyakarta, Indonesia, shows the more flexible the roles of men and women in the family, the happier they are.